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Wednesday
Feb292012

FOOD THAT IS REALLY BAD FOR YOU

8 foods that really are evil: some foods are so bad for you, they don't deserve a place in your diet. Here, what to avoid and some delicious substitutions - Nutrition

Dietitians are fond of reciting the mantra 'all foods can fit into a healthy diet' and telling people that there are no "good' or "bad" foods. But considering that 64 percent of adults (plus an alarming 15 percent of children) are categorized by the government as overweight, some experts say this message is baloney (which happens to be a really bad food!).

"The idea that there are no bad foods is a marketing gimmick thought up by the food industry to defend their products," says Bonnie Liebman, M.S., director of nutrition at the Center for Science in the Public Interest (CSPI), a nonprofit health-advocacy group based in Washington, D.C. "The whole notion is full of holes and makes no sense."

Evil is the only appropriate word to describe foods that promise pleasure but deliver misery in the form of heart disease and obesity. Although a Whoopie Pie isn't going to sprout fangs and go for your jugular, it's wise to watch your back when traveling the dark alley of empty calories. A sweet, creamy taste and jazzy packaging can be hiding a food that will only do you wrong. That's the thing about evil: Sometimes it looks so good.

The Dark Side of the supermarket

What makes a food really, really scary? In the edibles department, a food gets the seal of disapproval if it does more harm than good -- that is, if it supplies calories but little else, and also contains heart-disease-promoting substances like saturated and trans fats. Trans fats are the nasty man-made fats used to give foods a longer shelf life. Manufacturers hydrogenate oil to make it solid and literally twist the molecule into a form that wreaks havoc in the body.

Every food pyramid -- including the Shape Pyramid -- advocates a plant-based diet in which these destructive fats (as well as sweets) are "used sparingly." Unfortunately, supermarkets are brimming with such high-calorie, low-nutrient choices. Perhaps the biggest problem with foods that we are supposed to eat sparingly is that they simply are everywhere.

"The pendulum swings from abstinence to binge," says Elizabeth Somer, M.A., R.D., author of Nutrition for Women, Second Edition (Owl Books, 2003). "In our culture if you tell someone no, they only want to do it more,' she says. So instead of banning a bad food, choose a healthier substitute most of the time. And once in a while, when you really need to have a hot-fudge sundae or batch of nachos, opt for a small portion, sit down and savor every bite.

Following are eight foods to avoid or save for very special occasions because of the damage they inflict in calories, unhealthy fats and sodium -- plus some healthy and tasty substitutes that offer savings in calories and fat.

RELATED ARTICLE: 8 BAD ROODS TO AVOID (and their good alternatives)

1. Cola drinks

The damage (12 ounces) 150 calories, 0 g fat (10 teaspoons of sugar!) We take a hard line with soft drinks -- and cola is the worst offender. Full of sugar, corn syrup or other sweeteners and not much else, soft drinks pack 150 empty calories and have been pegged by research studies as being associated with both adult and childhood obesity, Cola drinks have the added detriment of a caffeine jolt that many of us just don't need. And it's easy to supersize yourself if you regularly consume the 42-ounce, 410-calorie versions served at fast-food restaurants and convenience stores.

"I recommend that patients stay away from sugar-sweetened beverages because these drinks may be replacing more healthful foods in the diet," says Cara Ebbeling, Ph.D., research associate at Children's Hospital in Boston. "In addition, there is evidence that when we take in calories in liquid form, the body doesn't fully compensate by reducing calories from other foods." In other words, your body doesn't register that you've just consumed a bunch of calories, because you don't feel full. This may lead to overeating.

Finally, sipping cola and other soft drinks bathes your teeth in cavity-promoting sugars -- whose effects continue up to 40 minutes after your last sip.

Healthy alternative Fruit spritzers (12 ounces): 0-15 calories, 0 g fat Sugar-sweetened beverages are easy to replace. Add a spritz of your favorite juice to flavored seltzer water or diet tonic water. Another idea: Add a few drops of vanilla extract to plain seltzer (steer clear of club soda, which contains sodium). Or enjoy a can of your favorite flavor of diet soda or sugar-free iced tea or coffee. You save 135-150 calories, 0 grams fat

2. Sour cream and onion potato chips

The damage (12 chips) 150 calories, 10 g fat (3 g saturated), 210 mg sodium Can't believe you ate the whole bag? Join the club! Empty calories, fat and sodium deliver a triple whammy that is the downfall of many. To make things worse, manufacturers take potato abuse to a new low by adding sour cream and onion flavoring to chips -- complete with extra saturated and trans fats and a dash of MSG.

Healthy alternative Raw veggies with homemade yogurt dip (1/2 cup veggies with 1/4 cup dip): 72 calories, 0 g fat, 106 g sodium (Mix 1/4 cup plain nonfat yogurt with 1 teaspoon fresh or dried herbs like parsley or dill. Add minced garlic or onion for extra zip.) It's surprising how satisfying it can be to munch on carrot sticks dipped in a tangy yogurt sauce -- honest! You save 78 calories, log fat, 104 g sodium.

3. Store-bought chocolate chip cookies

The damage (1 small cookie) 80 calories, 4.5 g fat (1.5 g saturated) Commercial baked goods like snack cakes, cookies and crackers are the source of most of our trans fat intake. And ounce for ounce, chocolate chip cookies take the cake when it comes to excess fat and calories. Some products are worse than others: If the label lists sugar, hydrogenated oil, white flour or a bunch of chemicals that read like a Material Safety Data Sheet, you know this product has gone over to the Dark Side of the supermarket.

Healthy alternative Fig bars (1 small fig bar): 60 calories, 1 g fat Figs, like all dried fruit, can really hit the sweet spot. Fortunately, there are several brands that don't use hydrogenated oils. One to try: Newman's Own Organics Fig Newmans. Or make your own healthful cookies or muffins using whole-grain flour and canola oil. You save 20 calories, 3.5 g fat.

4. Full-fat cheeses

The damage (1 ounce) 120 calories, 9-10 g fat (6 g saturated) Cheese, butter and ice cream all contain saturated fat, which can lead to heart disease and other health problems. Full-fat cheeses can have as many as 10 grams of fat per ounce, with more than half of those grams saturated, but for some reason we tend to consider cheese a healthy choice. "Most people think of lasagna as a good food,' Liebman says. "But with all that cheese, it's loaded with saturated fat!"

Healthy alternative Low fat ricotta (1/4 cup): 60 calories, 3 q fat No need to eat full-fat cheese when there are so many other acceptable dairy products: lowfat and fatfree ricotta and cottage cheese, skim milk or even plain yogurt (add your own fruit). You save 60 calories, 6-7 g fat.

5. Chocolate doughnuts

The damage (1 doughnut) 300 calories, 19 g fat (6 g saturated) All doughnuts are high in trans fat, sugar and calories. And although "bad doughnuts' may seem redundant, the chocolate-covered varieties cross the line into evil. Supermarket versions are the worst, at 19 grams of fat per doughnut, with doughnut-shop varieties a close second at about 16 grams.

Healthy alternative Raisin toast with peanut butter (1 slice raisin toast and 1 tablespoon reduced-fat peanut butter): 166 calories, 7 g fat (1.5 g saturated) You save 134 calories, 13 g fat (4.5 g saturated).

6. Regular bacon

The damage (2 slices, cooked and drained) 120 calories, 10 q fat (3 g saturated) Pigging out on bacon -- basically fried fat and salt -- can lead to more than expanding thighs. Cured meats like bacon, corned beef, ham and pastrami contain preservatives called nitrates that have been linked to stomach and colon cancers.

Healthy alternative Vegetarian sausage (2 links, cooked and drained): 80 calories, 3 g fat (0.5 g saturated) Instead of bringing home the bacon, why not fry up some veggie links? Morningstar Farms makes delicious vegetarian alternatives to pork and beef sausage. Turkey bacon is also a much healthier choice than pork. You save 40 calories, 7g fat (2.5 g saturated).

Monday
Jan162012

4 Ways to Bug Your Boss for More Money – and Get It!

by Linsey Knerl on 31 August 2010

Everyone knows we're in a recession, but let's face it: You may deserve to get paid much more than what you're getting now! Before you blow off the idea that your work is worth a bump in the pay scale, check out these four clever tips for putting in a good word about your worth. (See also: Underpaid? Here's How to Fix It.)

Wrangle References

This is an area where having an effective networking style can really pay off. Asking your current customers, co-workers, and colleagues for a few kind words about your performance isn't just useful during a hunt for new work. It can be a powerful tool in moving up your current career ladder, as well. You don't have to be transparent in your reason for asking; a simple "Would you mind sending an email with your thoughts on our working relationship?" will do. Save the best in a file to arm yourself with at your next performance review or compensation discussion.

Research Rates

Some companies are large enough to set their own industry rates — and get them. Others are completely oblivious to what someone in your position should be making. If you've caught wind that your job tasks are on par for the course of a higher-ranking (and higher-paying) position, bring this up to your boss. Explain that you realize that they may not have the cash to pay the going rate for someone with your expertise, but would they meet you halfway?

Value Added

Often, it's not about what they hire you to do that matters. If you are especially well-connected, possess a task or skill that puts you at a unique advantage, or have a willingness to perform beyond your peers (24/7 availability, maybe?), it's something that you should be paid well for. Demand that you get compensated for this value by letting management know how much they are getting!

Show Them the Money

For many companies, it's really just about dollars and cents. Did you save the company $X over last year? Would a process you helped to develop bring in extra money over time? What's the bottom line of your individual worth to the company? If it's well over what they are paying you, now's the time to document and sell your potential return on investment (ROI) with examples of how you can continue to grow in value.

Once you've gotten the OK to discuss a pay raise with your boss (in the form of a performance review or other scheduled meeting), come prepared with facts for each of the four methods above, and be sure that there are no outside distractions that could derail your attempts. Be confident, make positive forward-thinking statements, and never apologize for your request for more cash. Remember, you're worth it — now it's time that your boss knew, too!

 

http://www.wisebread.com/4-ways-to-bug-your-boss-for-more-money-and-get-it

Tuesday
Jan102012

The Sagittarius and Pisces Compatibility

The Home of The Sagittarius

Hello Fellow Sagittarians! This is a place you can express your imagination and exercise your online freedom. This page updates everyday with new horoscopes for you and all other horoscope signs if you want to check on a loved ones day or just look more into your future. I recommend Bookmarking this page as it constantly updates with new and exciting information geared exclusively to your sign! We even have a store where you can purchase your own sagittarius merchandise. This site will feature articles about sagittarius relationships, advice and more. Are you a single sagittarius and want to meet someone compatible with your sign? Well then you will want to stick around also because we can help you find that special someone.

Sagittarius And Pisces Compatibility

General Compatibility:

An unlikely pair these two might seem, the Water sign and Fire sign can actually benefit from each other a lot. Both these signs are governed by Jupiter but Pisces is also partly governed by Neptune. Pisces gives Sagittarius the understanding the others can't. On the other hand, Sagittarius will tell Pisces what it wants to hear. Pisces, like water, it fills any container that can be filled. Generally, Pisces has a lot of patience for everyone so giving the same to a partner is not surprising. Pisces has very humble and down to earth goals like maybe helping out in their own little way to preserve the environment or helping the less fortunate people while Sagittarius like working on the bigger projects that they know will have bigger impact and much better results. Both mutable signs, neither of these two will feel the need to be in control of the relationship. They will help each other in ways that others can't. Sagittarius will help Pisces go see the bigger picture and the latter will help in paying attention to details essential to the partnership. This is a good example of providing each other with things they lack. The key is that these two goes into things with the understanding that they do not expect a lot from each other and are open to new things that might come along their way.

 

Romantic Compatibility:

If in work and friendship these two can see eye-to-eye. It might not be the same as when they start to take things to the next level. A Piscean is lively and social like a Sagittarian but it also only moves in a small circle of friends. A Sagittarian has a lot more because being very extroverted it likes moving in and out of different circles and groups. This can make a Piscean insecure and Sagittarians will run for the nearest exit if they see the slightest hint of neediness and if the partner starts being clingy. Pisceans on the other hand likes to think things through so it will also not do good to rush them in to things. Usually a Sagittarian will just look for friends with benefits with a Piscean but the Fish will not settle for this. They want a partner but being dependent and shy will bore the Archer that he will either leave or have things on the side. An affair or short flings is possible once they feel trapped in a relationship and Pisces will not put up with that. The main problem for this combination would be, 1)communication, and 2) dependence-independence issues. Over time both might just wish they haven't even gone in this relationship.

 

Sexual Compatibility:

Small things turn a Piscean on. A kiss on the back of the neck when least expected; a friendly foot rub; or making small circles on the palm is very erotic to them. A Piscean, however, will seduce people through their emotions. They will show empathy that the others can't, drawing the Sagittarian to them. The Fish will want to seduce the Archer because they're attracted to his openness and erotic ideas. Sex will be exciting between these two but it might just be that way until they both realize they want different things.

Thursday
Dec292011

10 Secrets Men Keep From Women

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Yes, men tell women what we think you want to hear because, let's face it, you're going to decide if we're havingsex tonight. If you ask us to communicate, we think it's a trap. Women say they want me to be honest, but when men let it rip, women don't like the answers. As I have no personal attachment to anyone on this site, I'm going to let it rip.

Things men tell their buddies that they don't tell their wives and girlfriends.

1. Yes, it's about sex. Men like sex, men like variety. Men like women that enjoy sex, enjoy variety, and are active partners in sex. Discuss: Why do men love sex?

2. A man is less likely to feel romantic if a woman is making his life miserable. If you want to cuddle, don't start a fight over leaving the toilet seat up or not taking out the garbage, Buzzkill.

3. Men are passionate about the things women hate. In general, when men tell you they don't like cartoons, stoner movies, action movies, motorcycles, South Park, sports, firearms, the Simpsons, and ESPN, etc. they are lying so that they can have sex with you. 

4. Men don't like women's entertainment. I'd rather eat glass than watch Bridget Jones, but I've watched it for sex.

5. There's only 24 hours in a day. Eight hours of sleep, ten hours at work, two hours commute, 90 minutes at the gym, and 90 minutes cooking, eating, and washing up leaves only one hour each day for "us" or "me" time. Keep your expectations reasonable and share. 10 Ways to Squeeze in More Sex

6. Women have cold hands, feet, butts, and other body parts. Men are not your personal heaters. Warm them or keep them to yourself.

7. A man's willingness to put up with a women's b.s. is directly proportional to how hot they are. Yes, men will kiss a beautiful women's ass for sex, that doesn't mean you're going to get the same treatment.

8. When women say they want to sit down and talk, men hear "I'm pissed." You never want to talk about things we like, like sports, so telling us you want to talk sends us the signal that you want to bring up something that's bothering you. You might fool us once in a while by actually wanting to talk about something the other sex is interested in. Men have to, it's called dating.

9. Men hate dating because we have to lie. Lying isn't fun. We can't wait to be married so we can really tell you how we feel about Bridget Jones. Unless he's a jerk, a man's happiest day is when he no longer has to lie to have sex.

10.  Working out doesn't count unless you sweat. We don't want to hear about how tough your yoga class was if all the girls in class are wearing makeup. The Joy of Flex: Exercise Better Together

Taken from http://www.yourtango.com/200930578/please

Monday
Dec192011

Aries 2012 Predictions

Aries 2012 Predictions (March 21 - April 19) Aries 2012 PredictionsAries, the very first sign of the zodiac, exudes a great sense of adventurism, enthusiasm, and seems to have an unlimited source of energy within them. Courageous Arians, those born between March 21st and April 19th and represented by image of the Ram, are chock full of admirable attributes and the upcoming year of 2012 is one that will prove to brimming with positive and well deserved change.

Love and Relationships: Aries 2012 Predictions

Family life improves this year, especially during the last two quarters, and Aries should look to the home front for solace while enjoying the strengthening bonds between spouses and children who both bring with them great happiness to the Ram.

Aries are always open to new ideas, thoughts and suggestions, and while they love their freedom, their great adaptability allows them to make the best of just about any situation. Single Arians shouldn't overlook the possibility of a chance meeting, particularly during the middle of the year, which could easily become a strong friendship before blossoming into love.

The Ram should work on their communication and people skills this year, learning how to be a little more supportive and tactful when dealing with less than ideal situations that may arise in interpersonal relationships. The rewards of doing so will be great when harmony and peace are the result whether it's at home or at work.

Career and Finance: Aries 2012 Predictions

Working Rams shouldn't hesitate to express themselves and their creativity this year as on the professional front, 2012 could bring about some great improvements, although they may not come to fruition until the year's second quarter. Expand your horizons and collaborate with likeminded people who are equally as driven while putting your best foot forward in the ever competitive world of business and industry.

Fortunately, Aries will start to have a clearer picture in terms of finance, allowing them to spend their money a bit more judiciously than they did in the past. However, the beginning of the year isn't favorable for things like pay raises, promotions, job changes, or investments, so it's probably best to wait until the third or fourth quarters for these and similar financial prospects to improve.

Health: Aries 2012 Predictions

Most all Arians should experience a year filled with good health in 2012, but the only caveat to this is getting the proper amount of exercise and the right nutrition. Setting aside time for rest and relaxation to stay balanced and calm is important for Aries who despite their high energy levels, tend to take on more than they can reasonably handle by compromising their own needs.

Do make it a point to take part in some outdoor activities and adventures, especially during June and July, to rejuvenate and balance your energy levels while getting in touch with nature.

 

Exciting and encouraging news for surviving 2012 are sprinkled throughout the year and in general, Aries will enjoy a year of changes that have been brewing for at least the past five years or more, bringing with them relief from troubling frustrations and anxieties.